I wrote the following on my 10th day in the hospital,
August 10, 2022:
Today a friend stopped by to visit;
he brought a card that read:
Know what I say
when I see bad things happen
to good people?
That really sucks.
And that, friends,
is exactly what is needed--
not "Things will get better,"
not "It could be worse,"
not "God has a plan,"
but simply this:
That really sucks.
To have my suffering and frustration
acknowledged?
Best. Comfort. Ever.
I know all the rest is true,
but right now what I really need
is just this:
That really sucks.
So to all of you suffering today:
That really sucks.
I mean it,
and you can say it loudly,
without apology;
This really sucks.
And I'm truly sorry.
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